Presidential Election

Feel kind of "off" this season and don't know why?

You might have a mild form of PTSD (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder).

PTSD has risen sharply over the past month subsequent to the presidential election in the USA. More and more reports are appearing. Why? 

1. Whenever we try to process something outside the range of normal human expectation, our brains go on reverb loops trying to make sense of it. This process can be addictive, especially if the source is erratic and unpredictable.

2. Brains are lazy. They avoid conscious decisions when they take too much energy. Decision-making ability deteriorates with complex and repetitive decisions. Over the period of the presidential campaign, we have tried and failed to force reality and evidence to make sense. After many efforts over time, the brain becomes immune to further effort.

3. Neurons that Fire Together, Wire Together. Neurons activated together create stronger connections. Trump creates a strong and enduring brand memory (pairing of emotion and visual image) which continues the PTSD.  

Symptoms

Symptoms may start any time within three months of a traumatic event (November 8, 2016). They're evidenced by any or all of these signs. 

1. Intrusive memories

Recurrent, unwanted memories of the traumatic event

Upsetting dreams about the traumatic event

Emotional distress to something that reminds you of the event

2. Avoidance

Trying to avoid thinking or talking about the traumatic event

Avoiding places, activities or people that remind you of the traumatic event

3. Negative changes in thinking and mood

Negative feelings about yourself or other people

Less likely to experience positive emotions

Feel emotionally kind of numb

Hopeless about our future

4. Changes in emotional reactions

Irritable

Guilt or shame

Trouble concentrating

Trouble sleeping

Steps to Take

1. Acknowledge symptoms and know that you're healthy and "normal" because you do.

2. Speak openly; support groups have formed in most cities. Avoid blame and derision, just focus on your own reactions. You need affirmation that how you feel makes sense.

3. If you can't avoid the news, watch it consciously. Note how Trump creates division and mass addiction by his erratic, unpredictable and inappropriate behavior.

4. When thoughts and memories intrude, thought-stop and replace with action (write, call, support movements that can restore sanity, help someone else) or a substitute another thought."It will be OK in the end, if it's not OK, it's not the end."  

 

The Trump-Clinton-Sanders Triangle

Triangles, tangles and blocks are psychological strategies used to divert energy, de-focus, and stop movement. They work best amidst vague and un-prioritized goals, fuzzy communication, and with those lacking in emotional skills. 

THE TRUMP TRIANGLE

Triangles, tangles and blocks are psychological strategies used to divert energy, de-focus, and stop movement. They work best amidst vague and un-prioritized goals, fuzzy communication, and with those lacking in emotional skills. 

The Triangle is in full force. 

a. The Bully or 'Bad Guy' attacks.

b. The Victim is threatened and adopts the role of mistreated and misunderstood victim. This Victim is the central character in the game, without whom the Triangle would not exist. Their Identifying Phrases are: “It’s not fair.”  and “Look what they are doing to us.” 

c. Victims rely on another character to complete the triangle: A Rescuer or Hero who plays the 'Good Guy.' The Hero or Rescuer’s role is to listen, sympathize and optionally to fix the situation.  

d. If Rescuers can’t or won’t play the Role, the Victim will shift to Bully mode and attack both the Rescuers and attack the Bully. The Triangle is constantly shifting among Sanders, Clinton and Trump, and nobody is stopping it.

Bullies can play their roles only as long as there are Victims.  

1. The worst thing that a Victim can do is to become a bully and attack back. Late advice for Marco Rubio and Jeb Bush: “It’s the Bully’s game. Don’t go there.” Sanders, and Clinton, you’re both getting sucked in to his playing field. You will never win.   

2. Never ever play the Victim game, not even with your staff. Of course “it’s not fair.” 

3. Play your own game using your own natural skill and talent. Clinton, you’re a strategist. Bernie, you’re a radical  idealist. What strategies can you push to expose the Bully in his oh-so-obvious weaknesses? That's your game, play it. Play it so that the Nation becomes the Rescuer and helps you out, not because you’re playing Victim but because deep down we really don't like Bullies. If you play it right, play your own game and let the nation help you out.